She Wants You: How Avoiding These 48 Attraction Mistakes Will Make You A One-In-A-Million Man and Inspire Women to Pick You Over Dozens of Average Guys (Dating Advice For Men) by Stella Belmar

Author:Stella Belmar [Belmar, Stella]
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub
Published: 2018-08-10T16:00:00+00:00

This scenario sounds great, doesn’t it?

It’s almost great, except for the fact that the style of clothing you bought for her isn’t her style at all. She’s a very feminine girl who usually wears skirts and sexy tops. But you’ve dressed her in some fantasy image of yours in jeans, a shirt and a jacket that make her look rather like a boy or a rebel on a motorbike. She didn’t want to hurt your feelings, so she didn’t say no. But it’s not her style and if she weren’t with you, she’d never wear these clothes or spend money on them.

Instead of doing her a favor, you actually did her a disservice, trying to match her to your image of an ideal girlfriend. This is obviously something you need to avoid doing.

If you really would like to spend some money on her and buy her nice things, why not go with her to the store she likes and let her choose what she wants? Don’t put any pressure as to what she should get or what looks better on her. It’s okay to give your opinion on whether something fits her right or not, but you’d better abstain from trying to impose your style on her. After all, the point is to make her happy. And you won’t succeed in doing that if she walks out as someone other than she really is.

Another alternative is to give her a gift card for a store you know she likes. Whether you go there together or not is not as relevant as whether your gesture is a genuine maneuver to do something nice for her as opposed to fulfill some empty need you have. And by imposing things you like vs. what she likes, you also risk coming off as controlling. Women notice these things and you’d be sabotaging your relationship while thinking you’re being generous.

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